However, we also don’t want to find shitty tampons or whatever else in the garbage. We had a talk with our son and told him that we understand he is maturing sexually and we don’t care how he explores his sexuality. She brought it up to me and my wife, and we didn’t think much of it-until a couple of months ago, when my wife discovered, again, a used, shitty tampon in the garbage. The issue is that, a few months ago, his younger sister found one of her tampons in the garbage, and it was covered with poop. So long as he doesn’t get porn-obsessed and start letting his grades slip, it’s fine. At the moment, I pretty much just think fine, whatever, he’s a teenager, there’s very little I can do about it.

My son is 15 going on 16, and he’s been experimenting with masturbation.